Not Optional

What self care is: Getting a massage, getting your nails done, lunch out with friends, or a beach vacation. Self care also is:Brushing your teeth, taking a shower, having a good cry or a walk around the block.  What self care is NOT: OPTIONAL  For more Inspired Content Like and Follow White Light Guidance on Facebook  @WhiteLightLifeCoach

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Harder We Try, the Harder it Gets

It’s like trying to hold sand… The tighter you squeeze the more quickly it escapes your grasp. The key then, is to not try hard to hold on to it, but rather, to simply cup your hand and let it rest in your palm.  For more Inspired Content Like and Follow White Light Guidance on Facebook  @WhiteLightLifeCoach

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Our Thoughts Become Reality

Whether we like it or not, without fail, our thoughts become our reality, always.  Where we consistently put our attention is what we will get more of.  So for better or worse, ALL the things in our life are the direct result of the relentless consistency of our thoughts and behaviors. So why not choose…

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When Yes becomes No

We live in a state of constant change, transition and evolution.  Sometimes, as quickly as something comes in, just like that it goes out again.  Sometimes, it’s years in the making.  One would never imagine judging the tides for turning or the landscape for slowly changing. Why then do we judge ourselves for experiencing the…

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YAHTZEE!

We play a lot of Yahtzee at our house.  Sometimes you get what you need the first time you roll.  Sometimes you roll, and roll, and then roll again… and you are left with the decision, do I take 6 points on 4 of a kind or cross out my yahtzee.  (For those who are unfamiliar, trust…

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Shit We Can’t Lose

The list of shit we can’t afford to lose is rivaled only by the equally long list of shit we can.  Shit like: insecurity, worry, anxiety, pressure, bad habits, comparison and stress. It’s time to let go of that which no longer serves your highest purpose and hold fast to all that does. For more Inspired…

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What is Ours and What is Not

I have a bad habit of trying to take responsibility for things that aren’t mine to be responsible for, and for things that are ultimately outside of my control.  Other’s feelings, their experiences, behaviors, and choices. Just to name a few. But here’s the deal. We all signed the universal liability waiver when we chose the human…

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What IS

When we are constantly looking back at what was or ahead to what could be, we miss the opportunity of experiencing the joy and peace in WHAT IS.  Some people call this living in the moment.  I like to call it the art of being present.  Easy, right? Walk in the park, yes?  Uhhhh… no. As with all mindful practices…

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Release the Attachment to Outcome

We have a preconceived notion that boundaries are really hard.  Defined in her research, Brene Brown explains that boundaries are simply making clear what is okay and what is not okay and why.  It’s not charged, just clear.  The hard part arises not from the boundaries themselves but from our attachment to the outcome of those boundaries. The…

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Time to Update

Why won’t it print?! Seriously, what the heck?! Sometimes it seems to be fine and then others it just won’t work. Gah! After far too long with run around, trying a million different things and service calls into Cannon… we come to realize the default settings were still set to an old printer.  Change the…

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